First, do not enter into the relationship unless you are willing to do the work required to raise a socially acceptable member of your family.
Second, do not adopt or buy an APBT or other bully breed unless you have done extensive research on the history of the breed, the parameters of temperament, and the unique needs of your bully.
Third, and most important, do not own this breed unless you are willing to be a proponent of the breed.
Learn to educate all those who are unwilling or unable to understand the complexities of this majestic breed.
After all, men fear that which they are ignorant of.